🧠 Dadhood Insights Newsletter

Asalaamu Alaykum,

In the chaos of work, responsibilities, and routines, it’s easy to assume we’re connecting with our kids just by being around them. But bonding requires intention — and often, small consistent moments build the strongest ties.

Turn off the screens, leave your phone behind, and take your children out for a walk in nature. Whether it’s a park, forest, beach, or your neighborhood — nature opens up the mind and heart.
Use this opportunity to ask questions like:

• “What’s something you’ve been wondering about lately?”

• “What do you think Allah created the stars for?”
  Let the setting spark deeper conversations that rarely happen at home.

Make at least one meal a day a family ritual.
No phones. No distractions. Just you, your spouse, and your kids talking.
Ask questions like:

• “What made you laugh today?”

• “Did anything feel difficult or confusing?”
  Your presence and consistent attention will build a safe space they return to, even as teenagers.

Instead of just reading a book, play the “Story Chain” game.
One person begins with a sentence like:
“Once upon a time, in a forest full of talking birds...”
Then each person adds a few lines. You’ll laugh, imagine, and maybe end up with a life lesson hidden in the fun.

Take one child with you to the park, masjid, shop, or a short errand.
Let it be just the two of you — no multitasking, no siblings.
They’ll feel chosen, heard, and special.
Even 30 minutes a week per child can make a huge impact.

Instead of just rewarding them with screen time or treats…
Join in. Play their video game, watch their favourite show, try their hobby, or eat their favourite snack with them.
The message? “I enjoy what you enjoy. You matter to me.”

When your child is upset, don’t rush to fix it.
Validate their feelings: “I understand that was frustrating.”
Guide them gently: “What do you think we could do differently next time?”
You're not just solving the moment — you're raising an emotionally intelligent adult.

Let them help with setting the table, packing groceries, or leading family dua.
Then acknowledge it: “You did that so well!”
It builds confidence, character, and strengthens your connection through shared contribution.

Unlock the heart of fatherhood and innovation in this episode with Omar Choudary — proud Muslim dad 🧔🏽‍♂️, tech founder 💻, and creator of TeeniTales.

Omar shares his emotional journey from overcoming childhood challenges to building a loving, intentional home 🏡 for his family.

Discover how he stays present, apologizes when needed, and raises his children with empathy, creativity, and strong values 🌟.

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